littlespotz SG hi. juz think tat i'm really helpless when it comes to getting a girlfren. i'm not very goodlooking - everyone thinks i look like a little boy even though i'm already 22, i blush easily - my ears go bright red but thankfully not my face , i spend most of my time cycling, writing novels or singing - lone ranger activities tat dun garner much attention and i'm surviving on $420 a month, not much to splurge on girls. to all the girls out there - would u honestly date a guy like me?!
the Bear SG come to the outings organised by forum people... make yourself known... and widen social circle... mayhap, one of the ladies will take a liking to you?
*Dante* SG Originally posted by littlespotz: [b]hi. juz think tat i'm really helpless when it comes to getting a girlfren. i'm not very goodlooking - everyone thinks i look like a little boy even though i'm already 22, i blush easily - my ears go bright red but thankfully not my face , i spend most of my time cycling, writing novels or singing - lone ranger activities tat dun garner much attention and i'm surviving on $420 a month, not much to splurge on girls. to all the girls out there - would u honestly date a guy like me?! [/b]You do not have to bother whether your interest/salary/personality will invite girls' dates. You must be confident of yourself and with what you do. And surely enough, do not have the thinking that money must always be splurged on girls, they are not some form of entertainment where money must be splurged on. Appropriately, going dutch will do. All you have to do is to open your mouth and ask to "date" a girl. But do not behave beyond what is expected of a friend. Anyway, "dates" are meant to be fun, so just relax and enjoy. Every "date" will get you to learn more about communication skills.
ricklee SG ok first, u have to mix around more with ppl, e.g. by going to party, outings with old classmate, etc. Secondly, u have to feel good abt urself, have confidence in urself (coz girls do not like guys who are undecisive, freckle minded and no self-confidence). Thirdly, don't think too much, things that will be urs will eventually be urs, not urs means not urs. So learn from the past experiences and more forward optimistically Cheers
tomage00 SG hmm.........those suggestions is great as for going dutch.......... kinda like a joke.sg gal still like to be treat.it is esp so in the 1st date.need not to be at a grand eating place,not hawker centre is a "OUT". u must overcome ur shyness,den it is another steps forward. good luck
leilan84 SG Originally posted by littlespotz: [b]hi. juz think tat i'm really helpless when it comes to getting a girlfren. i'm not very goodlooking - everyone thinks i look like a little boy even though i'm already 22, i blush easily - my ears go bright red but thankfully not my face , i spend most of my time cycling, writing novels or singing - lone ranger activities tat dun garner much attention and i'm surviving on $420 a month, not much to splurge on girls. to all the girls out there - would u honestly date a guy like me?! [/b]choose the right one. don't invest all in.. ladies out there mostly wants someone rich enuff to support muz earn about 3 k per month... if not, you maybe happy now, but after married... money will be a issuse speaking from experience
verloren SG Originally posted by littlespotz: [b]hi. juz think tat i'm really helpless when it comes to getting a girlfren. i'm not very goodlooking - everyone thinks i look like a little boy even though i'm already 22, i blush easily - my ears go bright red but thankfully not my face , i spend most of my time cycling, writing novels or singing - lone ranger activities tat dun garner much attention and i'm surviving on $420 a month, not much to splurge on girls. to all the girls out there - would u honestly date a guy like me?! [/b]if you have self-confidence, you don't have to worry about not being rich at all. you don't have to worry about not being popular with girls at all. you don't have to worry about not being good looking at all. because self-confidence will naturally attract the girls. that's all i have to say.
[email protected]_arms SG HAHA! Fat chance. Not after he has just acknowledged his weaknesses and his spending powa!
[email protected]_arms SG Originally posted by littlespotz: [b]hi. juz think tat i'm really helpless when it comes to getting a girlfren. i'm not very goodlooking - everyone thinks i look like a little boy even though i'm already 22, i blush easily - my ears go bright red but thankfully not my face , i spend most of my time cycling, writing novels or singing - lone ranger activities tat dun garner much attention and i'm surviving on $420 a month, not much to splurge on girls. to all the girls out there - would u honestly date a guy like me?! [/b]The idea is to NOT TALK ABOUT ur FLAWS and to MAGNIFY ur good points, whatever they are.
gerrykoh SG First of all, u must go & socialise. Make as many frens as possible so u get more confident in talking to girls. Don't worry abt yr salary. I'm sure u will earn more later. Work on yr personality. Be helpful, friendly, out-going & I'm sure the girls will be attracted!
huy SG Originally posted by littlespotz: [b]hi. juz think tat i'm really helpless when it comes to getting a girlfren. i'm not very goodlooking - everyone thinks i look like a little boy even though i'm already 22, i blush easily - my ears go bright red but thankfully not my face , i spend most of my time cycling, writing novels or singing - lone ranger activities tat dun garner much attention and i'm surviving on $420 a month, not much to splurge on girls. to all the girls out there - would u honestly date a guy like me?! [/b]aiyoo... don worry la. as what the other sg members have say, try to be more open up, widen ur circle. not all gers look for the sake of money. some gers that i know typcially like shy guys. don know what the reason, perhapes they find them cute i sure eventually u will find someone who will know how to appreciate you.
justin_12345 SG Gif the gal money ?? or maybe buy her an Evo 8 ... that shd get her to like u... if she dun like u in the 1st place , i can't see how she is goin to change her view...
Shattered galaxier SG Hmmm if its is for me you try to find a girl you like then try to cared for them as much as u can if u have time try to talk to them on the phone after a few weeks they might just tell you that they have fallen for you bt gd luck anyway to find a girl
lution SG don’t be a loser, its not that difficult to find a ger. they don’t really go for looks and money.
lution SG Originally posted by littlespotz: [b]hi. juz think tat i'm really helpless when it comes to getting a girlfren. i'm not very goodlooking - everyone thinks i look like a little boy even though i'm already 22, i blush easily - my ears go bright red but thankfully not my face , i spend most of my time cycling, writing novels or singing - lone ranger activities tat dun garner much attention and i'm surviving on $420 a month, not much to splurge on girls. to all the girls out there - would u honestly date a guy like me?! [/b]hey anyone knowz how 2 get a gal 2 like a guy?? > You must first LIKE yourself !
Camellias4me SG Originally posted by lution: [b]hey anyone knowz how 2 get a gal 2 like a guy?? > You must first LIKE yourself ![/b]Rite on.. Like urself 1st.. Den make pple like u. We can say anything abt u.. ur ears or watever.. u can't please us all so y bother? Confidence. Feel gd abt urself.. den u'll look gd too.
